If you could choose something to tell people about yourself, or about pit bull-type dogs in general, what would it be?
Signed,
Curious
Dear Curious,
Wow, I'm flattered and bewildered all at the same time. I'm not really sure where to start. I think first of all I would like everyone to know that I am not perfect.
I am still learning good doggie manners. I work on them all the time, and I'm a good girl, but I still have my weaknesses. For example, I guard things. I don't know why, and I am getting much better. I don't do anything about it, I don't make a noise, or show one bit of aggression. I just guard. My food, my bed, the gate at the dog park, my toys, the pot roast in the crock pot, whatever seems important to me, I guard it. Until one of my parents catches me doing it, and then I stop because I am "reminded" that I'm not supposed to be doing it. I don't like it when I get The Look or when my mom makes that funny noise that means "stop right this minute." My mom says it is called "resource guarding" and I have to stop doing it. Lots of dogs do it, but it doesn't make it right. I don't do it as much as I used to, and I've almost broken the habit, but it has taken a long time. It's very hard to break bad habits.
I think it must be really hard for people to break bad habits, also, and I think people are in the bad habit of saying things about pit bull-type dogs that make us look bad, even when they don't realize that what they are saying might be harmful. My least favorite thing for people to say to me is "Annie, you are the most well-behaved pit bull I have ever met." Arrrrgggghhhh.
It's not that I'm not well-behaved, thank you very much, but what are they comparing me to? What would be music to my ears is "Annie, you are the most well-behaved dog I have ever met." Now that's what I'm talking about. My parents did not have to train me any special way because I am a pit bull, they just had to teach me basic doggie manners and how to share and how to trust. How I turned out had nothing to do with my breed, it had everything to do with the fact that I am a good dog. And I am a dog that didn't get a really good start in life, so all this learning business had to come a little later in life.
When someone tells me that I am the "best pit bull" they have ever met, what are they saying about my friend Cookie who is still waiting at the shelter? Cookie is a very good dog, and she loves the outdoors and will never turn down a good game of fetch.
She loves the outdoors.
And she loves to get her belly rubbed.
It makes her smile.
My mom has a friend who recently said that when she hears someone say "she's the nicest pittie I've ever met," it sounds the same as if they were saying "she's the nicest felon I've ever met." Now I know things come out wrong sometimes, and no one who has ever tried to pay us a compliment by saying this has ever intended it to come out wrong, but it sends a message to those who really don't know our breed very well that this "good pittie" is not the norm. And that's just not the truth.
So now, you wanna see some more really great pictures? Our shelter has these really wonderful photographers (named Sue, Anna Marie and Franzi) and they spend time with all my brothers and sisters at the shelter and take pictures of them that make them look like movie stars. Here's just a little sample of their work ....
This is Bella. She came to the shelter as a stray and has Good Buddies who are teaching her to walk like a lady on a leash and other basic and important manners. I'm kinda jealous how she gets her one ear to do funny things. I think it gives her a style advantage.
This handsome young boy is Dakota, and while we don't look alike, we actually are a LOT alike. Remember, I told you about my parents having to teach me about not guarding things I love? Well, this boy is going to be working really hard with his Good Buddy on basic manners and obedience to overcome some guarding/herding tendencies of his own. Good luck, Dakota, I know you are going to be fine. You just need to get your mind on other more
This is Grace and she is simply beautiful. Her Good Buddies are Joe and Amber and they are the answer to her prayers. Grace really doesn't like the shelter, and it makes her anxious (boy, do I know that feeling). This Saturday, Grace gets to go to the place where I get my nails done for a total beauty treatment. She is going to get her furs all cleaned and brushed, her nails trimmed, the whole works. I can't wait to hear how much she likes it.
This is Genesis, but her best friends at the shelter call her Ginny. (See her ear ... I am sooooo jealous!) She works with 2 Good Buddies, and she is doing great, learning manners, and charming her Good Buddy Tom with kisses on his cheek. That's the way to do it, Ginny ... keep up the good work!
And this is Karma. She is a very young girl with lots of energy and enthusiasm. Her Good Buddy is teaching her basic manners as well as impressing upon her that nibbling on fingers (even gently, as a puppy will do) is not a good way to make new friends. Now tell me, if you saw this picture of Karma in the kennel, would your heart have fluttered like it did just now, or do you agree these pictures really tell you more about the individual dog?
I love these pictures, and yes, most of them are pit bull types. But they are ALL dogs.
I love these pictures because they save lives. And so do you when you share them, and for that I thank you.
See you next week.
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